At the end of the day, you could be craving a hot bedroom session but know what you’re going to get is the same old. Because lets face it, we’re lazy at a days end! But, you can make sex hotter with a few simple changes. Here are 8 lazy ways to make your sex hotter tonight!
Get Out of the Bedroom
One of the easiest ways to spice up the bedroom is to get OUT of it. “Take them out of their comfort zone and really “explore” the rest of your surroundings,” says Taylor Henry, a sexual health expert. “Changing the environment up from what they’re normally use to helps bring a little more excitement and creativity to the mix. If it’s your kitchen, bathroom, car or even a vacant room in a busy house, nothing is more hotter.”
Throw on Some Porn
One of the best ways to spice it up for you or a partner last minute is through porn, says Alexis Thomas, owner of Taboo Tabou a pleasure-positive women’s boutique. “We’re not talking Pornhub; we’re talking good, sexy, and female-driven porn. One of the best outlets for this is Erika Lust’s X Confessions. Literally, five minutes with her and you will find yourself ready to go.”
Use Music to Get in the Mood
Sexy music that turns you on can turn any night into something majorly romantic. It can be whatever makes your heart pump. “Think back to all those times in your life that a song made you feel warm and fuzzy and compile those into a playlist on Spotify in order to set the perfect mood,” says Thomas.
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Draw Out Oral Sex
If you’re just used to giving your guy or girl just enough to get them ready for sex, commit to at least 15 minutes of you pleasuring them as soon as they walk in the door, suggests Kim Anami, a holistic sex and relationship expert. “Most people use this as cursory foreplay, rather than a main course. Extended oral sex is awesome.”
Bring in Some Voyeurism
After getting out of the shower; before going to bed, slip on something you feel the most confident in and make sure your partner sees. “After realizing they are admiring your curves, lay back in your bed, and bring out your favorite toy as if no one is there and give him/her the tease of a lifetime. That’ll drive them crazy!” Suggests Henry.
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Serve Each Other—Literally
There is no better way to make sex hotter tonight than by offering to take care of your partners needs, says founder and CEO of Cupidspulse.com, Lori Bizzoco. “Don’t worry about cooking them a dinner or make elaborate date night plans. Easy last minute gestures like making sexy compliments, caressing, touching, and telling your partner to relax and that you’ll take care of there every wish can be a complete turn on for the both of you.”
Grab the Toys
Sex toys are one of the easiest ways to spice it up in the bedroom quickly and easily. Thomas says, start by using it as a body massager on a partner and then when you are ready to get it all going apply it to every part of your body that responses to vibration. “Want to really make it easy? Grab something such as a wand that has a handle so that you can be as direct as possible.”
Tie ‘Em Up
If you’ve never done this before, it’s a sure fire way to get the pulse pumping in the bedroom AND there is plenty around the house to help tie your partner up and then kiss them all over! “Maybe grab a man’s tie or two scarves and tie them up to the bedpost or edges of a bed. Tying up your partner is one of the easiest ways to spice it up in the bedroom low key,” suggests Thomas.
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